Thursday, July 07, 2016

Bunso's Birth Story

I ended my previous story with checking out of the hospital on my 35th week.

17 February 2016

We were back at the hospital because I experienced contractions the night before. My OB instructed us to go straight to the hospital instead of going to her clinic. I was again attached to the monitor for contractions when I got to the pre-labor room. There were no contractions and when my OB did an IE on me, I was dilated by only 3cm and the head of the baby was still floating. So she told us to go back home and come back the following week, my 37th week, so that she can already induce me by then. That was my understanding then. Basta her exact words, "Sige balik ka na lang next week, saktong 37 weeks papaanakin na kita." So I went back home, back to my bed rest.

I thought I was going to give birth that day na. May obligatory last family photo pa sana hehe. 


22 February

I texted my OB and asked if I can already stand and walk around and she gave her go signal. That morning when I took a bath I had a discharge which I would describe as like sipon na madami but it was clear (no blood) but yellowish and sticky. When I texted this to my OB she said it was mucus plug and was a sign of coming labor and instructed me to go to the hospital that day if I feel frequent contractions. Anyway, with my OB's go signal,  Joema and I went out on a date to watch Deadpool hihi. But the whole time we were at the cinema, I knew I was already having contractions. This went on until the next day on the ride to the hospital.

The last supper


23 February

9:30am - 11am

Photo before leaving for the hospital
We were supposed to be at the hospital by 9:30-10 but traffic was heavy so we arrived around 11am already. When I went into the pre-labor room and they did an IE I was already 5cm. So I was admitted and transferred to the labor room.

12:30pm - 1:30pm

I was transferred to the labor room. I was initially brought to room 5 and then after an hour was transferred to room 1 of the labor room. After I was transferred they did an IE, turned out I was already 6cm. But I was still not feeling any pain from the contractions. The resident OB suggested that I have my epidural already, so I said yes. They called the anesthesiologist to administer the epidural. However, when I requested for the button thingy that I had with my previous two births the resident anesthesiologist told me that Dr. Mike (anesthesiologist) said sayang lang coz we only had 4cm to go. Tawagan na lang daw sila when I need another dose.

3pm

Joema was still not inside the labor room. He left me at the pre-labor room to have lunch and get admitted (get a room). Good thing our OB was inside the labor room so I told her that Joema was still not with me. Since alam nga nya that I want Joema to be with me the whole time, she told me she'll look for him. Yes, ganon sya kabait. Maya-maya bumalik na sya sa kin. Sabi nya, "Wag ka magalit. Papasok na si Joma, ayaw pala sya papasukin kanina." Later on kwento ni Joema, paglabas nga daw ni Doc at nakita sya dun sinabi ni Joma sa kanya na ayaw sya papasukin, sabi daw ni Doc, "Sino dito ayaw magpapasok sayo?" Hahaha But I think Joma went inside the LR around 3:30pm already.

At the pre-LR


4pm

The resident OB did another IE and I was still 6cm. Since hindi nagprogress ang labor they gave me meds to induce the labor and told me they will pop my waterbag. The resident cautioned me that I will feel the pain once they pop my waterbag. Kaso while doing the IE, talaga namang kung isuksok niya yung daliri nya dun (sorry TMI ahead and medyo gross) he felt na may poop ako. That's the only time I recalled na di ako in-edema sa pre-LR like my previous births. At dahil ginalaw galaw nya yung poop I had the urge to poop. This all happened simultaneously and quickly ha -  I dont remember na pano talaga yung sunod-sunod ng events at this time! When they popped my waterbag, the water was stained a bit color brown or green. Medyo delikado coz may color baka mainfect si baby because that's meconium or poop ng baby. So they administered another round of meds to my IV line. I asked my OB if I would have CS because of this. Sabi nya as long as magprogress ang labor and okay naman ang heartbeat ni baby, no need for CS. Maya-maya I felt the pain of the contractions na so I asked if I can have another round of epidural. They called naman the anes kaso hindi agad dumating. At the same time I felt the urge to poop so I thought napopoopoo talaga ko. And told this to the nurse. Sabi nya they have to tell the OB kasi hindi pwedeng magpoop lang ako basta sa bedpan. So the resident OB did an IE again, and asked me to push when a contraction came. Sabi ni resident, I was ready to go na daw and give birth.  Si Joma, hindi pa dala yung camera sa loob ng LR dahil pinagbawalan daw syang dalhin. So he had to go back pa to our room and get the effing camera hahaha! When he went out, I think that's the time they did the IE and told me they had to wheel me na to the Delivery Room because I was asking them na if I can poop. Dun na lang daw sa DR pagkadeliver ng baby, lilinisin na rin daw nila yung passageway ko.

4:30pm

So agad agad they wheeled me to the DR but the pain was extreme already, di pa dumating yung anesthesiologist. When I got to the DR, sumisigaw na ko sa sakit as in "Aaaaaahhhhhh!" Ganyan! It was my first time to experience that! Tapos pa feeling ko mapoopoop ako. In hindsight I think the urge to poop was really contractions, I wasn't familiar lang with that feeling. Tapos sinasabihan pa nila ko nang "Wag kang iire! Wag kang iire!" everytime I have a contraction. E anong gagawin ko? Ganon pala yun, when you push during a contraction as in wala akong nararamdaman na pain but pag dun sa times na I can't push with a contraction dun yung sobrang sakit. All those breathing exercises I practiced flew out the window! Wala na, yung instinct ko na lang na sumigaw at magmoan habang nasasaktan ang nag take over. Yung OB ko ngayon lang ako nakitang ganon kaya parang medyo nataranta din sya sa kin. Ang bilis din kumilos ng mga nurse to prep me. Kaso sa sobrang kaguluhan sa DR hindi pa pantay yung pagshave sa kin hahaha. Narinig ko pa yung resident asking our OB, san daw ba kukunin yung camera baka daw sa parking lot pa hahaha! Kasi naman wala pa si Joma sa DR non, gustong gusto ko nang umiri. Yung isang OB pa nga dun approached me and told me "Iha, wag kang sumigaw!" Kalerks! Dumating lang yung anesthesiologist nung naka-prep na ko. E syempre di pa agad nagwork yung anesthesia. Buti dumating na din si Joma kaso he needed to put on gloves pa when he got in dahil sya magcucut ng cord. In my mind pag ang tagal nyang maglagay ng gloves and another wave of contractions come, mamumura ko sya talaga hahaha! Siguro mga 2 or 3 times na nagcontractions ako in the DR (with matching "Aaaaaabhhh" na sigaw/moaning) before everyone was settled and pde na kong magpush. I only pushed twice and ayun lumabas na agad si baby. I gave birth at 5pm. The first thing I looked at were the genitals. It's a girl!

And she's out!

Thursday, April 21, 2016

Bunso's Birth Story - Prologue

Her birth story started before my 35th week. Around this time I was having difficulties walking, sitting for long stretch of time, well basically moving around because of a piercing ache in my groin. On my 34th week check-up I complained this to my OB and she told me it was pubic bone instability and advised me to wear a maternity belt. Everyone was actually telling me to go on leave already. Pero ewan ko ba for this pregnancy talagang kinaya ko all the difficulties without going on leave. Maybe because I know my body much better after my first two pregnancies. For example, if I experience some back pain I'll just go in one or two days sick leave. Unlike before I'll really go pa to my OB who will then advise me to go on a one-week leave. 

Feb 5 - I went on sick leave because I wasn't feeling well. No contractions though. 

Feb 8 (a day before my 35th week) - I was having contractions the whole day. i texted my OB if I should come in for a checkup the next day. She said to come in between 10am-12nn.

Feb 9 (35th week) - the morning before we left, Joema and I finished packing our hospital bags and put them in the car before leaving for the clinic. My OB did an IE during our checkup and it turned out I was 1-2cm dilated. Since I was only on my 35th week, she told us to proceed to the hospital so that I can be admitted into the intensive maternity unit. Her instructions was go to the emergency room and ask for me to be wheeled in instead of walking). Sa ER pala you can leave your car parked temporarily infront before getting admitted. You can transfer your car to the parking after admitting. That's what Joema did. Anyway, from the ER the nurse took us to the pre-labor room where they hooked me up to the machine which counts the contractions. My OB already called the pre-LR so they know not to do an IE on me and I was for admitting into the IMU. Around 4pm, I was transferred to the IMU and from then on was not allowed to stand up (no bathroom privileges whatsoever). Visitors were not allowed inside the IMU. Joema visited me only when I was transferred, then he left me there na. He brought cheese roll from Mary Grace and bottled water which I was allowed to eat for dinner. 


I spent the night at the IMU. Medyo nahirapan ako matulog coz the intern who was there to oversee me was bumping her table to my bed everytime she moves. Buti na lang another mommy was roomed in the IMU  (it was a shared room with another pregnant mommy), the intern transferred her table in between the two beds. And I guess di ako nakatulog din because I was worrying, I didn't know what will happen to us.

           At the IMU when Joema came to visit me. 

The IMU was near the deliver rooms. While there, I was counting off the babies being born from the number of crying babies that I hear. I think I counted around 8 babies born during my stay there. Tapos pa nung madaling araw may nanganganak na ilang beses na nagpupush di pa rin nanganganak. Di ksi ako sanay na ganon coz in my case after one or two pushes the baby's out already. 

My OB checked in on my first night at the hospital. She explained to me the things that were done to me.  Steroids was injected to me twice for baby's lung development and I was hooked to an IV of magnesium sulfate for baby's brain development. She said an IE will be done to me the next day and then she will decide if I can transfer to a regular room. Naku eto pa pala, while she was there the resident OB was also there as she was giving instructions. Binuking pa ko na dominante daw ako coz I required Joma to stay with me the whole time at the labor room when I gave birth to Javi hahaha sabay kabig na girl power daw. Ewan ko ba why she only knew then. We told her the story when we discussed our birth plan on my 34th week and she scolded me for being a demanding wife - "Naku ikaw napakadominante mo talaga! Kawawa naman si Joema" nyahahaha!

Feb 10 - I was allowed to eat breakfast when I woke up. Warning TMI: After eating I felt the urge to poop. I had to tell the nurse.  Since I was on bed rest with no bathroom privileges I had to poop in a bedpan. Hay naku! I was trying to control it kaso humihilab tiyan ko.  Good thing the pregnant woman beside me was already transferred to a regular room and I was the only patient left in the IMU. Kaso naman there were two interns with me. Hiyang hiya ako buti na lang they brought in a partition to cover me from the interns. They washed me naman with soap and water afterwards and I felt really clean after. 

Anyway, my OB checked in on me that morning. Although the IE was done by the resident OB before she came in. Dilation did not progressed but my cervical lining thinned and was effaced from 50% when admitted to 60% that morning. She explained that I can be transferred to a regular room but will still be on bedrest. I had to finish the IV of magnesium sulfate and then after that, IV drip of duvadilan for 24 hours then oral intake of duvadilan for another 24 hours. By the coming Saturday she will decide if we can go home. 

          Finally transferred to a regular room

Feb 11 - I thought I had contractions that night so they brought me in to the pre-LR and hooked to me to the machine. Fortunately, there were no contractions.

Feb 12 - My OB ordered an ultrasound for me that morning and checked on me at the ultrasound room. Size of baby from the ultrasound resulted to 36 weeks. She said she checked my records and mentioned that the size of the baby is indeed 36 weeks at that time. So if we do go on labor, the baby's size will be okay. 

That night he kids visited me. I was so happy to see them again after so many nights away from them. My parents brought them to the hospital, they also stayed with them at our home while we were at the hospital. 



Mek and Joy also visited us that night. Miya even asked them bakit wala daw yung mga anak nila hahaha.

Feb 13 - our final day at the hospital, finally! The nurse in charge on our last night was medyo tamad. All throughout my stay here the other nurses would position the bedpan at my bed and wait for me to finish peeing. But our last nurse would ask if I already finished, expecting Joma to do her job. So everytime I asked for her help, I was always in a hurry to finish. The last time I did it tuloy nagspill yung pee sa bed ko and my hospital gown.  When my OB came to do my IE ang panghi tuloy and she became alarmed because the bed was wet. Napagsabihan nya yung nurse buti na lang. Anyway, when my OB did the IE she said I'm still 2cm dilated so she allowed us to go home bit gave strict orders for me to be on bedrest until I gave birth. 

To be continued...


Week 15: The 52 Project 2016

Finally kept up with this weekly post! 

Ate playing PS3. She likes making her own characters, that is, choosing the facila features, costume, weapon etc. Her dad taught her although her playtime is always supervised and she only plays one game.
         Taken 15 April 2016

Kuya with his pogi face heehee I'm so inlove with my boy.
           Taken 15 April 2016

Bunso on her first carseat ride! 
        Taken 12 April 2016

Monday, April 18, 2016

Week 14: The 52 Project 2016

16I love it when I see my kids interacting with one another and seeing them enjoying each other's company, especially how the two older ones love the youngest one. 

Ate reading a book to Bunso, who obviously is enjoying it. 
         Taken 9 April 2016

Kuya trying to get a pinch from Bunso hahaha. Kuya adores her!
         Taken 9 April 2016

Bunso looking so adorable!
       Taken 8 April 206

Friday, April 15, 2016

Week 13: The 52 Project 2016

Photos of Ate and Kuya weee taken before they had there photo ID taken. We needed photo IDs for the two for some requirements. They both look so grown up in these photos. 


         Taken 28 March 2016

Bunso looking cute as usual :)
          Taken 30 March 2016


Thursday, April 14, 2016

Week 12: The 52 Project 2016

Ate enjoying the kiddie pool. 
         Taken 26 March 2016

Kuya didn't want to eat kaya pinapagalitan ni Daddy. Nakikipagtitigan pa talaga!
        Taken 22 March 2016

Bunso's 2nd wellness check-up and vaccination. 
            Taken 21 March 2016


Wednesday, April 13, 2016

Week 11: The 52 Project 2016

This is actually a screenshot of Ate reading her made-up story to Nina. I'm amazed she can come up with a made-up story spontaneously.
          Taken 17 March 2016

Kuya stepping on his coloring book haha! Kuya was sick this time, hence, the gel patch on his forehead. He had fever for a few days and then rashes came out after - tigdas hangin.
         Taken 17 March 2016

Nina taking vitamins for the first time. I'm not as diligent in giving vitamins to Nina because I know breastmilk should be enough in her first 6months of life. But at the same time, I'm following her pedia's order to give mutivitamins. Gulo ba? Haha!
         Taken 18 March 2016

Friday, April 08, 2016

Week 10: The 52 Project 2016

Ate bumped her head on their classroom's book shelf. She was sent to the clinic and was picked up by Daddy to go home. She had tears not because of the bump. She cried for a different reason but I forgot what it was all about.

         Taken 7 March 2016

Kuya looking like a binata.

         Taken 12 March 2016

Bunso just chillin'

          Taken 12 March 2016

Monday, April 04, 2016

Week 9: The 52 Project 2016

 I'm really trying to savor my time with the kids while I'm on marernity leave.

Ate taking a break from playing at our backyard. 
         Taken 29 Feb 2016

Kuya playing and goofing around. 
          Taken 4 March 2016

Bunso "winking" 
        Taken 4 March 2016

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Little Miss Sunshine

I gave birth to our bunso last 23 February 2016. Here are photos from her first week of life.











Week 8: The 52 Project 2016

This is the first week ing this Project 52 where I will post photos if my 3 kids. Wow 3 kids. Sometimes I still can't believe I have 3 kids haha.

Here's Ate reviewing for their last exams for the school year. 

             Taken 28 Feb 2016

Here's Kuya drinking his favorite Dutch Mill. Can you see his bukol sa noo? Nauntog sa headboard ng kama habang natutulog hehe.

                Taken 22 Feb 2016


Here's bunso when we brought her home from the hospital.

                Taken 26 Feb 2016

             


Tuesday, February 23, 2016

Week 7: The 52 Project 2016

I was on bed rest at home the whole of last week, except Wednesday when we went back to the hospital. Here's Ate Miya with baby bashful.

              Taken 17 Feb 2016


Here's my little boy and again a glimpse of my tummy. 

         Taken 16 Feb 2016

Thursday, February 18, 2016

Week 6: The 52 Project 2016

I was mostly at the hospital during the week (will blog separately about this) so this is the best photo I can post from that week. The kids visited me on my last night at the hospital and was so happy to finally see them. 


             Taken 12 Feb 2016

Week 6: The 52 Project 2016

I was mostly at the hospital during the week (will blog separately about this) so this is the best photo I can post from that week. The kids visited me on my last night at the hospital and was so happy to finally see them. 


             Taken 12 Feb 2016

Tuesday, February 09, 2016

Week 5: The 52 Project 2016

Miya getting a massage from her Ate. She had fever last night. Thankfully she got well into the night. 

                 Taken 7 Feb 2016

Javi eating dalanghita. He loves fruits, well actually all kinds of food hehe.

              Taken 7 Feb 2016


Tuesday, February 02, 2016

Week 4: The 52 Project 2016

Miya took this selfie. I didn't realize she was taking her photo until I got my phone back. We were on the way to school and she was seated at the back with her yaya. 

29 January 2016
The little boy being naughty and playing with his water cup.
30 January 2016


Monday, January 25, 2016

Week 3: The 52 Project 2016

During their dress rehearsal for their talent show. Taken 20 Jan 2016

Hahaha we love making him look like a girl, sorry! Taken 23 Jan 2016

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